Ek Ladki Kya Expect Karti hai ek ladke se?Ab har insaan ki kuch nakuch expectation hoti hi..hain jab wo aapke saathrelationship mein hote hain.Isi tarah ladkiyo ki bhikuch basic expectationshoti hain ladko se,Izzat Karna.
Sabse pehli or sabse zarooricheez hoti hai izzat, isi ki buniyadper ek rishta kayam rehta haiphir wo chahe dosti ka ho yaussey badkar koi relationship.Izzat Karna.
Aur kabhi bhi izzat mangi nahijaati hai, ek insaan dil se aapki izzatkarta hai, aapki, aapki soch ki, aapkesapno ki, aapke apnoki , aapkelifestyle ki vagarah vagarah.Apnana
Chahe wo kaisa bhi insaan hai,wo jaisa hai usey waisa hi apnanaBina kisi shikayat ke, bina uskibeizzati kare ya mazaak udaye.Past
Wo aapse humesha ye chahegiki aap apne past ke kisi bhi insaanjisse ek waqt mein aapki feelingsjudi hui thi, uska ab dobara involvementna ho, na hi aapki taraf se na uski.Befizul ki bandishein nahin.
Koi bhi shaks aapke sathrelationship mein isliye nahiaata ki usko ek jail mein bandho jaana hai, balki wo isliyeaata hai taaki wo aapkesath khul ke jee sake.
Usko support karo.
Public mein support karo aurakele mein usey samjhao ki wokaha galat hai, sabke samne uskekhilaaf khada hona bhi galat hai.usko har sahi cheez ke liye support karo,usey kabhiii judge mat karo.Waqt.
Uske liye waqt humesha nikalokoshish karo ki kabhi aisa na hoki aapne usse pura din baat hi nahi ki,thodi der ke liye hi sahipar waqt zaroor nikalo.Efforts dalo.
Sirf apni baato se nahi,apne Action se bhi mohabbat zahir karo,unke liye efforts daalo,baatein sab kar lete hain parnibhane mein ache acho kiphatt jaati hai.Mood swings handle karo
periods ke dauraan.Aksar ladkiyo ko periods ke dauraankaafi takleefo se guzarna padta haior us waqt unke mood swings bhikaafi hote hain,To wo us waqt humesha yahiezpect karti hain ki unhepyaar se or nazzakat sesambhala jaye,na ki unpe cheekha jaye ya lada jaye,Kabhi Give Up nahi karna.
Aksar situation aisi aa jati hainjab usko aapki sabse zyada zarurat padti hai,dhyan rahe, buz-dilo ki tarha yu beech raah mat chhodna.saath zaroor nibhaana..Aakhir mein bas pyaar.
Wo aapke saath hai hi isliye kiwo aapse pyaar karti hai aurpyaar ke badle mein sirf pyaar hota haiaur kuch nahi, wo aapse zyada kuch nahi,bas pyaar chahti hai,Iss sab ke dauraan bhi agar kisi ladki ki niyat thik nahiaur wo aapko chhod ke chali gayi kisi aur ke liye,To koi baat nahi Usne aapko khoya hai Aapne usko nahin.Hume humesha apna 100% dena chahiye,fir anjaam chahe kuch bhi ho............Yaad rahe, upar wala sab dekh raha hai,Ft. Anubhav Agrawal
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